Married for 7 years, 3 children and for years I have accepted his life of being self employed in the entertainment business. He's never home, spends no time with the children, comes home doesn't sleep in my bed always on the couch. We have a good talking relationship when it comes to household issues and the kids but there is no relationship between us at all. I get up, get the kids dressed, go to work, pickup the kids and do the usual dinner, homework, and bed and he would be out and never call to see if we are ok. He says that he's just trying to make a living for the family, but I don't feel right about it. I cry every night because I want a husband to spend time with me. Am I being selfish?
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