
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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so i am in the dating scene again, and i met this guy who is also recently divorced. mine was very messy alot of maliciousness on his side, but his wasnt it was mutual, very cooperative. so we are starting to get serious and i find wedding pictures on a cd and some cards and some other things he just hasnt gotten around to throwing away....i find myself being jealous of what they had because i have never had that, my ex never really was in love with me, he was in love with the thought of being married now, here i am crying uncontrollably like a child. im scared, im scared because i cant be hurt like i have been in the past, even though i was the one to walk away
im worried that maybe i could never be what she was to him. i worry that im not good enough for him, i worry that we'll fight, i worry that this will end up the same way all my other relationships have ended. i am just so tired of losing. he is so different than the others, he makes me very happy but i am just so scared and nervous
im worried that maybe i could never be what she was to him. i worry that im not good enough for him, i worry that we'll fight, i worry that this will end up the same way all my other relationships have ended. i am just so tired of losing. he is so different than the others, he makes me very happy but i am just so scared and nervous

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First of all, calm down. That will drive him away this early. I went through this a while ago and you've got to control your emotions. My problem was that I'm dating such a wonderful, good man that I was afraid that I'd lose him and never find someone who is as kind, affectionate and loving towards me. I decided that my panicing was going to scare him so it took a few days but I got some control over my freakouts...and just began to focus on having fun and enjoying every moment with him...not worrying about the future. LOL...I had been daydreaming about weddings and babies...and it just wasn't time for that! Don't look at his old memories again...it really doesn't matter in your relationship. And it also doesn't matter if you haven't had "that" before...here's your chance to have it now. Good luck and STAY CALM!!!
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