On May 15 2008 it will be 2 years that my stbx stated that he didnt feel loved or like loving etc. alot of other stuff Too long to get into. bottom line, we started going to counseling , him to his individul therapy and me who'd always gone to individual therapy cause of bouts of depression. anyway, in april 2008 , it will also be 2 years that his ex girl from about 20 years ago moved in across the street from us. She is divored twice and now lives there with her 3 kids. stbx says he knows i think hes having an affair and i do. shes his ex, she moved in there at almost the exact time he rocked my world with news and now he even emails herr regularly. i know that cause i found the email he set up secretly on the family computer and her email address there as a contact. of course he says they are just friends. i dont belive it. if there is something going on , i need to find out soon.
plaese advise