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Ok...........I'm sitting here trying to watch a movie, and totally not enjoying any time by myself.
Just spoke with my STBX (his weekend with kids), and he had his friend takes our kids out, so he could go spend time with his girlfriend.
Hate to admit it, but he seems much more devoted to "her" than he ever did to me. Guess green eyed monster has reared its head today.
And.............he continues to spend alot of $$$$$ on weekends he has kidlets from eating out to spoiling them...............then back with me to normal routine.
Guess the feeling of jealousy is another thing I have to come to terms with.
Just spoke with my STBX (his weekend with kids), and he had his friend takes our kids out, so he could go spend time with his girlfriend.
Hate to admit it, but he seems much more devoted to "her" than he ever did to me. Guess green eyed monster has reared its head today.
And.............he continues to spend alot of $$$$$ on weekends he has kidlets from eating out to spoiling them...............then back with me to normal routine.
Guess the feeling of jealousy is another thing I have to come to terms with.
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Sure, he is spoinling her now, but in a year, he will be screaming at her too. I figure better her than me :)
That is my attitude anyway.
My ex- also spoils my daughter. If he could only see how hard it is for her to come home and not get her way all the time! He's probably feeling guilty for leaving her or somehow he is trying to stick it to me, I'm sure.
Maybe he is trying to make you jealous with this new woman. I hate the head games.
Everyone is right that soon enough the fun will be over for him. I firmly believe that the reason my STBX wasn't happy in our relationship is that he isn't happy with himself. He has never had to be on his own, or do anything for himself. He cannot be alone. If he can't make himself happy, there isn't a single person in the world who can. Once he realizes that though, it will be way to late to fix things.
My STBX sat down with my son, and told him that he plans on marrying his girlfriend, as soon as our divorce is final in early 2008.
It makes me wonder, if he is not taking the time to heal from this marriage, and into another one.
For myself, how can I not afford myself, and the kids time to regroup, heal, and grow inside emotionally to stand on my own.
I totally disagree with everything he's done, and hope in time that he realizes how he has treated me, and been disrespectful to me.