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Is it Temptation?!!

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Working things out with the spouse, actuallly had a really great week going. Today we(together, not noramlly my spouse's thing; football that is)go the homecoming football game and HE is there aka the OTHER guy... I ignore the section he usaully sits in and just try to concentrate on being wtih the spouse. At half time, my spouse decides to leave (the game was really bad) But I choose to sit it out b/c I really wanted to see our team win. Third quarter it looks like thats a snowflake inhell chance, so I decide to leave...I am standing by the gate and guess who walks by...Yes, HIM again... I don't get it ...I'm trying to move past all of that and here he comes, looking really HOT. His daughter was beside and he calls out her name and I look over b/c I hear his voice. Now I can't get the image out of my head...What to do?
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Do the right thing! If you want to make this work with yr spouse you HAVE to put thoughts of OM out of your head for good!
Good Luck with it
(((((hugs)))))
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So what if he is hot. Acting on Temptation is what breaks families apart. Be strong as you yourself said you are trying to work things out. Don't let the seducer destroy your family.
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I am not overly religious, but at church once the pastor said that the reason we should not sin in not only because God forbids it; it is forbidden because the results of sins hurts many people.
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