I posted earlier in the week but to give a brief recap, my husband of 9 years left me the other day without giving any real explanation. He has some sexual preferences that make me question whether he might be struggling with his sexuality. I'm a little embarrassed to admit that he seems to only be able to have anal or oral sex with me. And if I am not comfortable with the degree of oral sex he asks of me, he says if you were a good wife, you would want to make me happy. I could be completely wrong on this, but it's so frustrating that he won't give me an explanation for leaving. Doesn't he owe me that? It's so hard to not be completely FURIOUS with him for leaving me like he did. I have spoken with my counselor on this and he admits that the thought has gone through his mind as well. I want this separation and/or divorce to be as amicable as possible since we have a 4 year old daughter who is very confused at all the sudden changes. Any advice or suggestions would be very appreciated.
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