I knew something was up with my husband. He was acting different. I asked him if he was cheating on me, but was kind of joking. I mean we just had a baby. After about a month of me asking him what was up he finally told me that he loved me, but wasn't in love with me. We decided to work on us, though I was the only one who seemed to do anything differently. He just seemed to grow more distant. Then about a month later he confessed to having an inappropriate relationship with a woman at work. He said it was just flirting and texting. He said he would stop. Another month later he got more distant and I felt like I kept catching him in lies. He said he wasn't cheating, but didn't stop talking to this woman. We decided to go into therapy. It's been about a month. I felt like things were getting better. Then a week ago my best friend told me that she heard a rumor that he was seeing someone and that he went to her house in the mornings. I beleive that he had an affair. He has been going to therapy and changing his behavior. He lets me know where he is, doesn't take the phone to the bathroom anymore, etc. The therapist seems hopeful for us. I am just so exhausted. How do I know his affair is over? How can I trust him? He tells me that he loves me and that he wants it to work, but doesn't think that it is going to. I am crying everyday. I just want my husband back. It's like he can't even bear to sit next to me and watch TV. None of his behavior makes any sense to me. Do you think it could work? Is it possible for him to fall back in love with me? Why can't he make love to me anymore?
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