No I dont pray for his death, but I do find myself thinking it would be easier if he did die. I think because the hurt is so strong that it would be easier if he was gone.

I think if I were you I would pray that you can find some peace. I dont think it the most healthy to pray for her to die. Pray that God will help you to get past this grief and move forward.

yes.... i do not pray for him to die but l do think it would be easier-then i would not have to deal with any of his bs.and where would be no hope left.

i don't pray for his death, but i do pray to forgive him. every day of my life i ask God to give me the strength to accept he has problems and to judge his actions and behaviors, not him as a person. my prayers haven't been answered. so i keep asking.

No, just for her to get the help she needs. Not for me, but for our kids.

I wouldn't feel good or right about doing that.

No I don't pray for her death. That in my opinion would be morbid. I do pray for the day when she realizes that she blew it big time. I am waiting for that day though. But no, I do not want any harm to come to her.

RobNi, NO, Please do NOT pray for her death!~! I know you are hurt right now, as most of us on this board is. Instead, pray for her to get help & for you to get the peace that YOU deserve, want & need during this difficult stage in your life. "My Prayers Are With You!~! "Keep Your Chin Up!~!"

My stbx is older so the thought has crossed by mind but praying is a bit too scary for me, what if it happens to me? Well, I do pray that we end up "friends" for the sake of our kids (only one still at home). I pray he can find peace and happiness as I want too.

I was wondering about this, and a pastor friend of mine showed me passages in Psalms where David did this; he prayed that God would kill his enemies and remove their names out of the book of life.

So it's not without precident.

I would just wonder if there aren't more productive things you could be doing with your time.

Maybe it is part of the "stages" or something???

I was praying for My Death.

God is pretty good at ignoring me when I am in a "mood".

Some of us Wish them, Fantasize, Talk About...get pretty Morbid...we might really think that we Want them Dead...but I don't think we mean it.

I think that we want the Hurt, Confusion and Loss of our Lives to be DEAD and this Person symbolizes that.

They made it happen. We will get past this and be Stronger for it. Just hang in there.

Well, now that I've read your story I can see why you would feel that way.

I just started doing the same thing, but, I don't want him dead, I want him to bleed out slowly, just like he's doing to our daughter.

I am glad I am not the only one who dreams about the STBX dying. It would definitely make it easier and sometimes I even fantasize about being able to speak to him right before he dies and saying, how is it going for you? Bad karma has really bit you in the backside hasn't it. Just think all the pettiness and money grubbing you did during the settlement is all coming to me anyway.

I'll admit I've thought about it. Haven't prayed for it. But I thought OFTEN how much easier it would have been had he just....disappeared...lol

Ok..you know what.I have seen alot of hurt and pain on this site.Most of which i can relate to myself.But to wish DEATH on another person at all,little lone someone you profess to have loved or still love is unacceptable!I beg you to please get help.I'm not gonna dance around this one-THAT IS MORBID.Come on....Jeez !