My soon to be DH is the one who wanted the divorce. In Oct.07 he left me for 10 months. His alcoholism grew stronger and he cheated on me more than I probably care to know. Because we had been together for 10 years, the first 7 amazing, I love him, and he didn't become this way until he became an alcoholic three years agao, I waited for him to get better and for his old self to come back. Well, he wasn't completely better,but he moved back in four months ago to try to make the marriage work. In the end, he couldn't stop drinking and couldn't promise me he would be faithful because he doesn't even trust himself. Anyways, he finally moved out last week and I went to the divorce lawyer yesterday. Since he moved out I had to set up boundaries with him because he was texting me at night to say good night with xoxoxoxxo and calling leaving messages checking in with me and then ending them by saying I love you. I told him those things had to stop because they are sending me mixed messages and are not fair to me emotionally. So now he is emailing me asking me if I need anything at all. He offered to bring me groceries twice during this snow storm and he lives 45 min. away. Asked if he could shovel the driveway for me or anything else. Is he doing this out of guilt or because he doesn't want to really let me go? I am so confussed! Does anyone else relate or have any input? I would appreciate it:)
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