My ex wanted to meet with me with another proposition she wanted to present. I met her at the park and talked while the kids played at playground. She told me that if I helped her get the house ready for sale, she would split any money left from house 50/50. When she booted me out I told her she couldn't handle the house and she wouldn't listen. The house is large and has a large yard that she never helped take care of. She said that she could mow the 1/2 acre lawn. I knew better and she wouldn't listen. The problem is that there is so much owed against house and so much to do to get it ready to sell that wouldn't make anything on it. She seems to think otherwise. Me and my family doesn't agree with her. I told her she should stay there but she says she could not afford it. Like I told her when she booted me out and wanted the house that she couldn't afford it. I put a lot of work in it and I wouldn't get anything. I told her if I did than I wanted it in writing and notorized. However, like I said, I don't think she can get anything like she wants out of it considering the current market. One side of me say to hell with her and let her sink her grandmothers inheritance in it and sink her. The other side is thinking about my two children. I think it would affect them and don't want to hurt them. At this point, I don't know if I could help her because all the bad memories that house has brought. That house is part of the problems that resulted in our seperation and divorce. I have to pick kids up at a neutral location because it really affects me badly. I am afraid that it will emotionally ruin me. What do I do. I told her to get her lazy brother-in-law to help her and she said that I know better to expect him. She is right, he works 3 months out of year then collects unemployment for the rest. I wonder what I should do? I'm kind of stuck because any way I chose I will lose some way. I just end up help her out of her end of the debt but not my end of the debts that I took considering she was the one doing all the charging on her credit card while we were married. I probably will try to help just because it will affect the kids.
Sorry it so long.
Sorry it so long.
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