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I recently had a dinner with my soon to be ex. He became that after he cheated in the marriage. He commented to me that he hated the other person and referred to her as 'slut face'. I asked him why and he said that she made it easy for him to cheat and keep cheating. I have my ideas on the whole thing but basically I think this is reflective of his emotional age more than anything and that maybe it was a good decision to divorce him after all.
Things remain amicable between us and appreciate that he felt okay enough say this to me. Please respond to this thread with your perceptions and insights.
Things remain amicable between us and appreciate that he felt okay enough say this to me. Please respond to this thread with your perceptions and insights.
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That really pisses me off. She made it too easy for him and so he kept cheating?
She didn't make him do anything! He chose to cheat and keep cheating...It was his choice, he most likely pursued her...lied to her as he lied to you.
Kick his ass to the curb right now. Until he takes responsibility for his actions I would never consider taking him back.
I am taking things better because it took me only one year to figure out I am just wasting my time on more of the same.
That certainly was a "crock of shit of a statement" but it said a lot about what sort of a person he is and I have to be realistic about our relationship. He is emotionally younger that his shoe size lol.
The fact that he blames her also scares me because I wondered about what he blamed me for in the marriage?
Once I got over my hurt I wanted to learn from my mistake and keeping things amicable is the best thing right now because I can get his input to learn from my mistake.
So far I have learned that I need to put more inquiry into my future relationships than I do by new shoes!!!!!
He admitted he had an affiar.
That's not exactly something to be extremely happy about. But for some of us, all we had was a gut feeling, that something was off or just wasn't right. ANd no matter how much proof we had, it was nothing but denial from the other person.
Feeling like something is ery, ery wrong but not having it validated by the other person admitting it can be...maddening.
But he actually fessed up.
That's worth more than words can say.
After my divorce I found out that my wife (now ex) had cheated. Her excuse was that she just wasnt "happy" anymore. Always, and I mean always..someone elses fault!! She will have to live with the fact that our kids now look at her completely different, whats left of her friends look at her different. Mmmm I guess the grass isnt always greener.