I am a member of the Infidelity Group also. I thought that it might help me to accept my husband's affair. I recommend that some of you that were cheated on go check it out. My husband cheated and it hurts like hell that he left me, but after reading some of their stories I have to wonder if oneday I'll be grateful that he left. I love him with my whole heart and I miss him each day and I believe that if he came back I would work it out but who knows if I wouldn't be miserable??? It really, really sucks right now but maybe it's easier to heal with him gone than if he was here. Reading some of the Infidelity posts makes me think that a lot of people staying together never do heal-- they just spend the rest of their lives unhappy and doubting their spouses because they "love" them. To quote a popular phrase "they'd rather be with them for the wrong reasons than alone for the right ones".
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