Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
It has been a week since I found out that she
wants a divorce. I was shocked to hear that it
had gottent that bad for her. In many ways the marriage was beautiful. I didn't know what she was going through. She continued to go through the motions and I was left in the dark. It pains me so much because I love her deeply. I have done a lot of learning these past few days and
have grown to understand the relationship- partly she was finally able to be honest with her feelings. All of a sudden, what was going on made sense and I understood her issues. I did some deep soul searching and grew through the pain. I feel like I have changed in so many ways and would love her the way she needs to be loved. I did not know what she was going through. We were very loving towards each other- I thought. She is done. I'm soo suprised because
things were progressing. I'm at a lost and
in a blink of an eye my life is changing. OHH the pain.
wants a divorce. I was shocked to hear that it
had gottent that bad for her. In many ways the marriage was beautiful. I didn't know what she was going through. She continued to go through the motions and I was left in the dark. It pains me so much because I love her deeply. I have done a lot of learning these past few days and
have grown to understand the relationship- partly she was finally able to be honest with her feelings. All of a sudden, what was going on made sense and I understood her issues. I did some deep soul searching and grew through the pain. I feel like I have changed in so many ways and would love her the way she needs to be loved. I did not know what she was going through. We were very loving towards each other- I thought. She is done. I'm soo suprised because
things were progressing. I'm at a lost and
in a blink of an eye my life is changing. OHH the pain.
SynthiaMPHM
i hope for your sake that i'm wrong, but do you think it's possible there's someone else? I'm sorry you are going through this!
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I also had the blink of an eye experience. It's been 4 months now and it still keeps me up at night. The doubled over in pain is gone, just left with WTF thought at night. I don't know the new her, and I'm not hanging around to learn it.
GregF
Sorry to hear of your loss. I knew that things weren't going well but every time I tried to talk with her about it, she didn't want to. One night, she called me down from the bedroom and said it wasn't working out and that she wanted a divorce. I wasn't shocked by this, but I knew what was going to happen since we had divorced and gotten back together once before. I would never wish that pain on anyone. My prayers are with you.
deleted_user
Sorry for your pain. This is hard to take.
deleted_user
I know exactly how you feel about making changes in your life hoping it will make a difference. It's so hard when people don't see you for who you really are. I share your pain and wish you luck in dealing with your loss.
deleted_user
I totally understand your pain as I've been going through this myself. I thought we were happy and boom a few weeks after he told me I was his top priority, things changed and he finally said he was unhappy after I confronted him.
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I share your pain, sorry that you are going through this. No, it is not fair. If it is not enough that they break your heart, followed by them getting on with life.
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You'll be glad to have found this site. Although my marriage had been rocky for a long time, the idea of a divorce still hits like a ton of bricks. I'm so sorry for your pain...when you hurt, we all hurt here at DS. It's ok to cry and cry and cry some more...but remember, you are NOT alone in this!!!
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
