I went from being told stbx wants a year seperation to wants an immediate divorce. So far the general information is she moves out, We get joint custody of the kids. I stay in the house and while she goes to college, gets her life started I have the kids. This has been a significant change and somewhat of a relief. I do not know what is going on fully. But I will be divorced soon. Bitter sweet.
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