someone help me here. i need help with understanding why my stbx has to interfere almost every time i say squat to my kids. tonight after dinner i asked matt to dump his rice, rinse plate and put it in the dw for me. stbx proceeded to ask , did you unload it? i just gave me a long look and he says, i"ll take that as a yes. i said, why else would i ask matthew to put it in the dw if i didnt unlaod it (the f'n dumbass) he says, i just didnt know if you knew it ran thats all and im just asking a question. I said oooooook
(like , whatever) is he a dumbass? why would i ask the child to load dw if it had dirty stuff in it. what a f'n dumbass.
i cannot wait til this is all over. i need peace . i got chest pains after this because he know he just did it to annoy me and i know he's probably waiting for me to break down. aint goonna happen! it will be a cold day in hell. i have to stay sane for myself and the boys.