Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Why didn't you F***ing file first?!!! What is your goddamn hurry? You have been wanting out since 2007, so why the hell was it up to me to file? Can't you be a little more patient while I handle our children's emergencies? You know, the kids that you do not want and are giving me sole custody of?!!! I am so sorry that you need your portion of the tax refund to pay back the college you flunked out of. You said I was the one to file for us and I have had my hands busy handling our 4 sons, winter illnesses and my OWN LIFE!! SCREAM!!
Calling my lawyer to see where the papers are and finishing the taxes have been at the bottom of my list!! But I am sure that once I finish my exam that I was supposed to take last Monday, food shopping, parent-teacher conferences, homework and daily life of raising four boys, I will get right to those issues of yours!!!
After all, you have lived by your motto, "Sara will handle it." So, be patient to let me FUCKING handle it you cowardly, lazy SOB!!
--Sara
p.s. The next time you chuckle about my week being bad because our youngest son was sick and then had to be rushed to the hospital by ambulance, and the oldest son having an emergency at the pool, I am going to find a way for my fist to reach through 1200 miles of phone lines!!
Calling my lawyer to see where the papers are and finishing the taxes have been at the bottom of my list!! But I am sure that once I finish my exam that I was supposed to take last Monday, food shopping, parent-teacher conferences, homework and daily life of raising four boys, I will get right to those issues of yours!!!
After all, you have lived by your motto, "Sara will handle it." So, be patient to let me FUCKING handle it you cowardly, lazy SOB!!
--Sara
p.s. The next time you chuckle about my week being bad because our youngest son was sick and then had to be rushed to the hospital by ambulance, and the oldest son having an emergency at the pool, I am going to find a way for my fist to reach through 1200 miles of phone lines!!
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
He sent me a snotty email before Christmas asking if I was just "stringing him along" . No, I was sick for two weeks and had surgery scheduled in January that I am still recovering from.
Really pisses me off.
Ok, soothing thought, Om-m-m-m-m
Lynne
Breathe, breathe, breathe.
Hugs!!
Can you tell I am a tad angry toward him today?
--Sara
Hugs!
If he harasses you, just tell him you will not be doing it. You have other priorities.
Too bad he needs the money, etc. Tough noogies. That's a consequence of his own choice.
He's laid all the responsibility at your feet. So lay some at his now.
And if he calls bothering you, tell him you will not allow him to bother you, and hang up.
What a jerk.
Hang in there, Mom2Four!
--Sara
Lynne
I filed for divorce as well, even though he was the one who wanted it.
But as to doing anything else he wants you to do, I'd tell him to go shove it.
You're busy, extremely busy raising 4 kids and going to school, taking care of everything. Anything he wants done, he can do himself.
Wow...it's amazing how many men (and women, I know) are so frigging self-absorbed. Totally amazing.
what a ass