Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
If you left your spouse for someone else, how did it work out for you? Are you happy? Any regrets? Did you grieve or just walk out and feel ok about it?
My ex left for someone else and I am dying to know what is really going on in his head. I know he will never tell me so I am looking for others to share their stories. I know it shouldn't matter, but this is something I need to know for closure.
My ex left for someone else and I am dying to know what is really going on in his head. I know he will never tell me so I am looking for others to share their stories. I know it shouldn't matter, but this is something I need to know for closure.
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
Three weeks after he left, he wanted to talk to me. I met him because I thought (hoped, wanted) him to say he was sorry. When he saw all my bruises, scrapes, scratches, etc. from moving and putting stuff in storage, he started to cry and told me he was very sorry, that I deserved so much better. The next morning he told me that he didn't remember why he married me or why he even asked me to marry him(he asked me at least 50 times before I said yes). He also said he always just said what he thought I wanted to hear. That is what made me decide I do deserve better, I do not need him to say he is sorry, I can make it without him. At that moment I decided to no longer let him control my life. I shut off all feelings for him. There is no anger, hate, love, absolutely nothing. I will not waste any more time or emotions on him. I am thankful for my many blessings, my faith, my children, my health, my family, my job. The list is endless. I look forward to each day of my new life and the freedom to be who I want to be.
By the way, his latest "someone" would not leave her marriage for him. Even after her husband and I discussed the affair.
He also spends much time calling and whining to the two children who still speak to him that he is alone and no one wants to be with him, no one loves him. As my oldest says "blah, blah, blah" Lots of times they won't answer their phones when he calls them.
It doesn't matter what is going on in your ex's head. It matters what is going on in yours. It is his loss and your chance at a better life. I wish you much joy and happiness in your new life. I know at times it seems you will never be happy again, but you will. I hope you are able to find closure and move on and ahead in your life.
I pray that you find strength in you faith, family and friends.
Take care and have a wonderful life :)