My marriage is over. I am just waiting on the final stage. So I have already mourned and have forgiven myself for my part and forgiven my spouse for his part. What I just can't get through to him is the idea that "if we just work at it we can turn this around" is not an appeal I want to consider. After betrayal and rejection and just ugly years I was too tired to "work at anything". Knowing that it was over was a relief for me. Now I wait on him to accept that it is over. Has anyone had this response from their spouse when divorce is on the table?
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