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What's the hope of trying to start a new relationship?
I think I do want to get married again. I know that I am a very healthy person in terms of committing to a relationship but if 2nd marriages have even less of a chance of surviving as first marriages do, then why even try?
It's scary to think about getting involved with someone else and then it not working out.
I don't think I could take this again. And I know there is no guarantee and that I must put myself out there in order to find love again but man the odds are just not in my favor which is just sad :(
I think I do want to get married again. I know that I am a very healthy person in terms of committing to a relationship but if 2nd marriages have even less of a chance of surviving as first marriages do, then why even try?
It's scary to think about getting involved with someone else and then it not working out.
I don't think I could take this again. And I know there is no guarantee and that I must put myself out there in order to find love again but man the odds are just not in my favor which is just sad :(
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The alternative, to me anyway, is worse.
I'm going to be taking my chances. Life is too short to let worry take over..and keep you from enjoying the best things in life.
I remarried four years later to my STBX who had also been married once before. I didn't know the statistics and I doubt it would have changed my mind as I was "In Love" and thought it would be forever!
I guess I was wrong again! I look back now and see there were some red flags I should have done something about, but I was too in love to care. My STBX cheated in her first marriage and I told myself, people make mistakes and that we would be different. Her first marriage lasted only two years. Well, guess what? Our marriage lasted two years as well before she cheated on me!
I loved being married and coming home to my wife, but I don't think I will ever get married again! It hurts too much to trust someone and then have them turn their back on you when they leave.
We only have two choices though. Married or single. Which do you prefer?
I just did not think that he would be that selfish to want out of our marriage and I guess I was wrong. I thought he was a great guy and I adored him.
Guess I want the some of the same qualities except the selfishness in my next husband and will definitely not compromise on that.
In so many cases, people marry young. Then they start off in life. They encounter changes, hardships, challenges, they learn and grow, and sometimes they change over time and their needs, priorities and objectives change as they grow and learn more about themselves. Thats one reason why couples separate.
Seems to me, under those circumstances, second marriages would stand a better chance of succeeding, if one is careful and doesn't rush it...of course.
I wouldnt have guessed it that high.
Im gonna say the glass is 1/9th full moving forward. All I gotta do is find another 1/9th-er.
: )