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If I ever get married again...

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I want a real wedding ( last one got married at the justice of the peace since we had in law issues alrealdy) I should have just bailed

I will select the dress I really want

I will only marry someone who's parents are dead are almost dead.......

I will get the honey moon of my dreams.. I was married the first time to a cheap accountant....

( lets have some fun with this one)
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My X allowed no traditions-No music, no dance, no toast,Ceremony at the library-just a simple dress-i made everything myself(flowers decorations etc-no honeymoon-not even a decent wedding night-(Quickie in the bathroom and then fell asleep with ESPN) I would love to have everything different-I think I will have to settle for giving my daughter the wedding I wanted and deserved. I hopes she picks men better.
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Ditto to the in-laws and the honeymoon.
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On a cruise ship... simple but gorgeous dress (hand made by me). I will have special people there (probably have to pay their way), and then a bunch of strangers who don't know my history...
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Lets see, we got married while he was on a one day pass from a drug treatment program, Teen Challenge. We had to rush to the JP, get married, have a quickie at home, went to eat mexican food, and then I drove him the 3 hours to get him back to TC in time. I want the fairy tale... if there ever is a next time... at this point I don't really want to ever be married again!
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well...as long as there is a party, its all good with me. I rarely celebrate a good party and am not missing out. Oh,and I am keeping my own last name.
deleted_user
deleted_user
If I ever get married again...

It will be after a long courtship.

It will be to someone who is special and to whom I am special.

Most importantly, I will listen to my gut. Even if I'm standing there in front of the minister about to say "I do", if my gut says "don't do it!", I'm walking away.
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Notice we have no men responding?
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deleted_user
Well something I'll never have to worry about...so I guess that's bonus.
deleted_user
deleted_user
men will respond later...I'm sure of it.

Not if, WHEN I get married again, it's going to be to someone who appreciates me for me, and lets me appreciate him.
deleted_user
deleted_user
In Hawaii on the beach with only close family. The resorts there will handle all the details and all you have to do is show up and look good! Then off on a cruise around the islands for the honeymoon. The family can stay at the resort for a few days and have a vacation, too!

Last time it was the JP and I was 6 months pregnant and he left the next day for military training. Not my favorite moment.
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I will hopefully make sure that she is in love with me and knows that marriage is another journey. I will not be so emotional and pour my feelings out to her in front of everyone. My wedding was the best I loved every minute of it. Oh and have the bride focus on me rather than the dress and everyone staring at her.
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If I ever get married again...

SHOOT ME!!
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Im with you 100% about marring someone with there parents dead or almost there.In laws suck and when I get rid of them I will never have them again.next time its going to be all about what I want or nothing.
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jmb - HA!
CanadianRose
CanadianRose
Slap me.. Slap me real hard again and again if I ever utter those words!

I have served my 26.5 years.... much longer than most Convicted Murderers in Canada serve I must note.

nope.. did the JOP.. then a fancy schmancy wedding... shotgun marriage btw... nope.. not going there again....

well.. unless me and the Aussie....wait... Slap me Quick!
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