I am trying to stay strong against being with my ex. I realize the relationship is unhealthy and has caused me too much pain. He is trying different ways to contact me and now has started to use the I love you stuff.I am not saying I am a weak person but when it comes to him I feel weak. I haven't spoken/replied to any of his calls or messages in 6 days, but now that my anger has subsided a bit it is getting harder and harder for me to not want to respond to him. What I would like to know are some idea's you guys have used to stay strong or as a very good friend put it "drawing a line in the sand and not letting him cross it" The ideas would really be appreciated! Thank you all for being here for me!
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