Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I received a call from a female who claimed to have something in common with me. According to her, the commonality that we share was the male we were both dating. She wanted me to meet her at a designated place so we can discuss the situation. I told her no because I do not know her and if my boyfriend is what she wants I don't fight over men. Initially, I was shocked. I tried calling my boyfriend to discuss the situation, and he was not responding. After several ignored calls, I wrote him and e-mail ending the relationship and telling him what a low life he is. I responded emotionally because he has a history of seeking other women when things go wrong between the two of us, and he has membership on a singles website. Given his history "What am I supposed think"? It turned out the be that the person whom I least expected was involved with someone he met over the internet on a singles website. He admitted this to me when I told him what had happenend. I apologized to my boyfriend, and he not taking the apology because he feels too hurt. He does not see that his seeking other women when he feels hurt contributed to response. Thoughts, opinions?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
What is Dr Phil's comment? Past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior...or something like that.
Find someone who doesn't see you as being easily replaced by the next one on the waiting list.
Life is too short to spend like this.
So.. just hear us out please....
I think you know the answer here, and are seeking to hear something different in your heart. We are not imaging things, not trying to scare you.
He has done something hurtful, putting you at risk too, and how many of these women has he met?.. had sexual contact with?... nevermind.
It is time to say good-bye. We have been there, and many of us did not say good-bye, but we continued to ignore the behaviour and to forgive them.
Yes, I agree with the comment, the Dr Phil one about past behaviour is the best indicator of future behavioiur.
Time to leave this relationship, it is not going to be a healthy one for you.
what if...the shoe were on the other foot? what if you had a membership you continued with despite being with him? what if HE had received a phone call from a man telling him the same things she told you?
is it easy once something bad happens to always look for the bad??? absolutly!!! without a doubt you are always looking for the other shoe to drop. you may have over reacted a bit, yes, i can give him that. but why does he still have a membership that he still USES when he is suppose to be committed to YOU?????
the worst words i've ever heard..."she's just a friend, i needed to talk"...
yeah right...try it again bubba...
he's not accepting the apology because he knows he is just as much to blame for giving you the reason to go off the deep end as you are for doing it.
but that's just one twisted, broken hearted girls warped opinion...
Has a relationship with you, and continues a membership to a dating site? RED FLAG! You deserve better.