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I would like your opinion.

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I am not perfect. Bill and I met a little over 5 years ago. I was a bartender and flirt and party girl. He and I became friends and then somehow more then that. We drank too much together. I drank too much. We have now been together just a little over 4 years. The first 2 years we lived together. Most of the time happy. Happier than I have ever been. His work he has to travel. The last 2 years have been awful. We will go months without seeing eachother. I don't go to bars and party like I used to but oh God sometimes I want to. I love him. I am crying right now because I don't think my heart has ever been so broken. Sorry. He always has an excuse I thought alcoholics were the ones with excuses. He gets upset with me when I try to discuss things and belittles me. I am a whore sleezy slut tramp worthless piece of trash.

WHY DO I LOVE THIS MAN? WHY AM I CRYING RIGHT NOW?
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Sounds like it may be time to move on... even though it will be hard and sad. Hang in there!
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You are crying for the ideal of what you have lost. The feelings that made things so good. Grief is a natural part of the process, but by no means is it the easiest. I know the pain of a broken heart. At some point the pain will go away and the grief will subside.
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You love the man you knew before.. Maybe deep down you know that man is still in there somewhere, and that is the one you are crying for. Any loss produces grief.. and it takes time to get through that process.
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I think you may be right. I am soooo in love with that man and I want him back and it breaks my heart that I have to say goodbye. No, you are right and that is why I am crying so bad right now because I have to let go...I hate this
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Hey Vp her is a little scripture about trust ; Psalms 9:9 The LORD is a refuge for the oppressed,
a stronghold in times of trouble.

10 Those who know your name will trust in you,
for you, LORD, have never forsaken those who seek you
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Don't let any man make you feel like you are worthless. It took me many therapy sessions to learn that. You have a lot to offer someone and obviously he is too dumb to see it. Maybe you need to step back a little and let him see what he would be missing.
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