
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
For me it took a good 3 to 4 months before I got over the aching grief. And then there were the days in between afterward that caught me by surprise that caused so much pain. Just know you don't have to be on any one's timetable for healing. You will move on slowly but surely but take the time you need to grieve this loss.
You are going to be hurt either way. If your STBX was still around exposing you to the negative behavior that hurts so much in the first place or if they are gone and you miss them.
It's not just that you are better off, the grief and pain are giving birth to a new life that you can shape for yourself.
You will hurt for a little while but look at it this way. Even if you had surgery to remove a cancerous tumor, there is still a recovery period of pain and discomfort after the tumor is gone. On the upside the tumor is GONE and your life is saved.
It still hits me every now and then, but not as bad and not for as long as before.
For a while there, I thought I'd NEVER get past it, but I did. You will too.