I have been struggling with the fact that my husband left me for another woman. I have dealt very well with the situation at hand. I have come to the realization that we are never getting back together and I am ok with that. So now I really want my stbx happy. I really do but I want him to crash and burn first. I want the relationship he has with the OW to fall apart and I want him to feel the pain that I have felt. After that is over I would love for him to find someone that makes him happy. Is it normal for me to want his life to fall apart before he finds happiness.
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