
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Oh god, I took a really big step.
I told my wife, that if she respects me. She can no longer talk to the other man. I did so with love, but it was still hard.
I asked her what her relationship with him was, and she told me she honestly didn't know.
I asked her what the ring meant, and she told me she felt a deep connection that we've been together for 13 years.
I asked her why she decided to wait to file, she said she wanted to know for sure, because a lot of things will change in her life.
She told me she hasn't finish reading the book, but will. She needs to refelct on things, and didn't want me to get false expectations. She wanted to let me know she's still leaning towards divorce.
There was a little bit of crying on her end when I took responsibility for my actions. She thanked me because she had been angry at herself for not being enough.
I'm really scared right now, I'm not sure if I jumped the gun or not. But I honestly feel, no matter how much of a dirt bag I've been, her daily interaction with the other man would forever seal shut the door for us reconciling.
I took responsibility for my actions during the last 13 years, and told her she has every right to leave if she wants. But I feel disrespected with her interaction with the OM.
I may have just pushed her out the door.I should have written a letter like I had planned. I'm starting to panic ...
I told my wife, that if she respects me. She can no longer talk to the other man. I did so with love, but it was still hard.
I asked her what her relationship with him was, and she told me she honestly didn't know.
I asked her what the ring meant, and she told me she felt a deep connection that we've been together for 13 years.
I asked her why she decided to wait to file, she said she wanted to know for sure, because a lot of things will change in her life.
She told me she hasn't finish reading the book, but will. She needs to refelct on things, and didn't want me to get false expectations. She wanted to let me know she's still leaning towards divorce.
There was a little bit of crying on her end when I took responsibility for my actions. She thanked me because she had been angry at herself for not being enough.
I'm really scared right now, I'm not sure if I jumped the gun or not. But I honestly feel, no matter how much of a dirt bag I've been, her daily interaction with the other man would forever seal shut the door for us reconciling.
I took responsibility for my actions during the last 13 years, and told her she has every right to leave if she wants. But I feel disrespected with her interaction with the OM.
I may have just pushed her out the door.I should have written a letter like I had planned. I'm starting to panic ...
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Best wishes
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Take care and the panic unfortunately, is normal. You feel as though your saying how you felt will shut the door for reconciliation. If and when she figures out what she wants, it isn't because of anything you said. Believe in yourself, you're making great strides even though it makes you feel like crap inside.
As always, best of all to you and your wife.
Again, I don't mean to sound like such a pesamist (sp?) but I know how much it sucks to be let down when he wasn't wearing his.