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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I am not divorcing, just breaking up and now that I moved it's long distance as well with me in NY and him in FL.... I have already bought him xmas presents and I call him to see how he is and things....It's like I can't completely let go because I feel guilty. I haven't moved on, there is no one else and I am not ready for anyone else... but it's over as far as a romantic relationship... how can you be friends? would be his question, you see he said he couldn't settle for just being friends so I did not want to hurt him and I said we don't know what the future holds.... am I in the wrong here?
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You say you "just want to be friends", and you probably mean it...but it's a double-edge sword; it's a challenge and it's also a huge kick to the gut.
Please do the humane thing and just let him be alone.
I think it would be kinder to just let him go.
I should just shut the door and act as if we did not have 4 years of our lives together? how do you do that?
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was more like acting friendly when we HAVE to interact. otherwise I'm quit happy she leaves me alone, and I Leave her alone.