Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I really need some advice on my relationship. We hae been together for about 2.5 years now and have recently had a daughter a year ago, I also have a daughter from a previous relationship as he has a son. So there are 5 of us in the family. We have always had issues. In the first year he cheated and was phisically abusive during my pregnancy. I somewhat forgave him and after the birth of our daughter he was wonderful...a different man. Until 2 months ago I had sever post partum depression and things got bad. I was suicidal and couldnt get off the couch for 2 months and he started treating me like shit. Last week he left me. He blamed our whole relationship on me and actually spit in my face. 4 days later I took him back because I missed him so much. Now that hes here though, its like I hate him. I feel like hes hurt me too much. When he hugs me I feel nothing. I am numb. We agreed wed go to counselling but the counsellor said she needs to see me by myself for a while because she doesnt know what I want. Im so confused....Im just losing all the love I had for him but I know if he leaves Ill be a mess. What should I do? Sorry its so long
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
What are the ten words that your friends and family would use to describe you?
What do you want out of your relationship with him?
Is being with him consistent with your values?
Is your pain directed outward or inward?
May your pain recede to reveal the beautiful woman that you are.
Glad to hear you are getting the help you need. Its a long road, but soon you will start feeling better. Hang in there.
You dont need that. Its hard to be alone trust me I bought my first house with the intentions of starting my life with her. She left me 3 times and all 3 times I took her back because I was lonely and missed her. This time she is going to stay gone. I cant keep going through this when something doesnt work out for her. You should do the same. Its hard I know but you dont want to live your life in a lie. You said you took him back because you miss him. Now he knows he can do whatever he wants to and youll always take him back. Im sorry for being a dick but you need to ask yourself, is that what I really want? He left you once so far and blamed it on you. Trust me it will only get worse when you take him back. Im telling you this from personal experience. And because it hurts and I dont want anyone to go through what I had to. Its not fun. Think about it though.