To share what I'm feeling (one of the many things right now :-) is this: if you're going through what could be deemed as a negative... be in hope that there is an opportunity to see it in a positive light too, it's only impossible if you let it. Seeing the glass 1/2 full if you should say. It takes time to practice and master this skill... I'm still in the practicing mode... but trying to make a negative into a positive at least to some degree has helped me tremendously. As for my break up recently... I try to ask the big guy upstairs for prayers, all of your advice and motivation for me has helped (thank you), and thinking to myself that possibly the break up was so he could be good towards me but in a different sense because we're not an item... I came across this quote once, "Just because he doesn't love you the way you hoped for, doesn't mean he doesn't love you with all he has." By him leaving the relationship for him, could also be because he wanted to love me in the way so he would discontinue hurting me as he seemed to realize how much hurt he's caused. Hope this helps a little.
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