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I am feeling like a wounded bird this monring without my wings. My husband moves out Saturday and I know it is agood thing, but I am so angry and sad at the same time. My anxiety is through the roof. We got into an argument about money last night. I told him his credit card bills are there and they need written out. I asked if his direct deposit will be going into my account this Friday and he said yes. So I said I would write out his bills if he leaves it there. He said he needs it all this week. So I AM NOT writing out his bills. So I asked well then when does my child support start? He said with his next paycheck. Well that is messed up that means that I have to wait 2 weeks before I get a penny? Then I told him he has to pay me 1/2 for all the expenses for the month of November well that pissed him off. He feels as if I am a money hungry bit@@. I am not I just want what is mine. He has himself to worry about and I have my girls and myself. He told me not to but the kids anything for Christmas because they don't need anything. I feel that is so selfish and inconsiderate to say especially their own father. I need to know what to do to calm myself down and what to do to handle this. I know some of you are already past this stage and know the best course of action. Please help!
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trying to work out financial matters with other emotions mixed in at this time, is going to make you look like that to him, and him look like that to you. He should already know he has to pony up some money for HIS family! But I dont think he is going to be that easy about it for some reason.
As for Christmas, he sounds like a selfish jerk. You may not be able to spend what you normally would for Christmas...try looking for some online coupons and deals...but they should still have Christmas!