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Anyone whos been to mediation b4 and had to come up with a parenting plan. anything at all we can agree on. we went to mediation today and they told us we could have up to 2 sessions THe next one is on dec 5th. and they want us to come up with a plan we can agree on or it will go to family relations evaluation of custody etc. i just dont want ti to get to that. i want to be able to agree on something.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Decide who has final say in matters medical, religious, and educational.
This is a start. Does this help?
Holidays: for Joint Custody, Mother Physical Custody.
Father has children 1st Holiday on list, and Father has them on every other holiday on list afterwards.
Example:
Easter- 6pm day before Easter until 8pm Easter. - - - - Father has children.
Memorial Day- 6pm day before Mem. day until 8pm Mem. day. - - - - Children stay with Mother.
4th of July- 6pm July 3rd until 11am July 6th. - - - - Father has children.
Labor Day- 6pm day before Labor day until 8pm Labor day. - - - - Children stay with Mother.
Thanksgiving- 6pm day before Thanksgiving until 8pm Thanksgiving Day. - - - - Father has children.
Christmas Eve- 6pm Dec. 23rd until 10pm Dec 24th. - - - - Children stay with Mother.
Christmas Day- 10 pm Dec 24 until 10 pm Dec 25th. - - - - Father has children.
Easter- 6pm day before Easter until 8pm Easter.- - - - Children stay with Mother.
Memorial Day- 6pm day before Mem. day until 8pm Mem. day. - - - - Father has children.
4th of July- 6pm July 3rd until 11am July 6th. - - - - Children stay with Mother.
Labor Day- 6pm day before Labor day until 8pm Labor day. - - - - Father has children.
Thanksgiving- 6pm day before Thanksgiving until 8pm Thanksgiving Day. - - Children with Mother.
Christmas Eve- 6pm Dec. 23rd until 10pm Dec 24th. - - - - Father has children.
Christmas Day- 10 pm Dec 24 until 10 pm Dec 25th. - - - - Children stay with Mother.
Easter- 6pm day before Easter until 8pm Easter. - - - - Father has children.
Memorial Day- 6pm day before Mem. day until 8pm Mem. day. - - - - Children stay with Mother.
4th of July- ..
and so on.
Father has children every Wednesday 5pm until 8pm.
Father has children every other weekend from Friday 8pm until Sunday 8pm.
Father has all children on each of their Birthdays from 5pm until 8pm.
Father has children on his birthday from 5pm until 8pm
Mother has children on her birthday from 5pm until 8pm if children otherwise are with Father.
This is reasonable because we did it briefly. Work hours and such dictate the hours but this is a pretty good guide.
The point is to come up with something to benifit all parties with children as the priority.
Good Luck. Encourage both yourself and ex to love children and remain flexable on that. Thats my opinion.