ok - so he left us, like nothing. obviously having some sort of breakdown. went back to his bacheleor life. wanted nothing to do with my son and I. Months had gone by, he demanded time & time again that it was over, so - with the help of support on here - I got thru it. And then I had met a "friend". I was not trying to meet any1 at all, it just happened. Anyway, it's been great. I have met my best friend. We are so in sync. Well, guess who's been trying to come back?? Likely story, right? Ok, i'll hear him out ....... and it seems all is the same. Empty promises out of desperation. And then he finds out of my new friend. SO - here's the voting topic - - He says he would fight to the end for me, but will not compete with another man for my love. Says he wants to be my husband & spend the rest of his life with me (again), but will not do it with another man in the picture. Here's my side - - I have told him that i put this guy "aside", but that is apparently not good enough for him. I tell him that if he really wanted me back that bad, that he WOULD fight for me. and in the end of this tug-o-war, he is trying to make it that this is my decision of it not going any further then. ummm ... didn't he leave his family and not me? he admits that he pushed me to this other guy, so how is this weight on my shoulders?? and a side note - he still has no contact with my son because he says "it hurts too bad". - - - - - Who's side are you on? honestly I ask for truth.
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