My eyes hurt from crying, my throat hurts from yelling and my hand hurts from banging the returnable cans! Yes I just had a little meltdown and need to get the strength to make the leap and file for divorce. Been married for almost 18 years, 2 teenage kids and am an at home mom. I've asked repeatedly for a divorce, he won't discuss it and we're in counseling (not helping yet). While the kids were out I tried to talk to my hubbie and it quickly went ugly - he doesn't talk, ignores me and eventually I get so frustrated I can't stand it. After he left to get the kids I had my meltdown. I know I need to leave but keep telling myself that the timing is rotten to sell the house, cash the 401ks, don't have a job etc. But I think I'm just stalling. How did you all get the guts to finally make the leap? Thanks for listening.
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