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Most people who have responded to my post of "Mate list" have responded about the "neat freak" and housekeeping thing.
To be honest, that is one major reason my ex is gone. He is super neat and I am not. He said that it bothered him that I would not keep things neat.
I am not a nasty or keep a filty house but it was not too his standard.
I have been making strides to get better at housekeeping. I think I am going to leave work early today to work on my house.
I am determined to do better in my life. So, if getting my real house in order is called for. Then I am going to make it happen.
Help, I hate housekeeping.
To be honest, that is one major reason my ex is gone. He is super neat and I am not. He said that it bothered him that I would not keep things neat.
I am not a nasty or keep a filty house but it was not too his standard.
I have been making strides to get better at housekeeping. I think I am going to leave work early today to work on my house.
I am determined to do better in my life. So, if getting my real house in order is called for. Then I am going to make it happen.
Help, I hate housekeeping.
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I got messier the longer I was with him. I've put many hours into getting this house back in order. It's looking pretty good. I still won't be confused with a neat freak, though.
I am however, seeing things different and I need to through away some things and have the kids do their part!
Now, the mail piles up in the dining room (no office anymore), the guest room is also my craft room, and overflowing with material and yarn. I clean once a week (usually on Friday/Saturday) unless there's some special reason to change the routine...
My 4 food groups now consist of frozen, canned, takeout or leftovers... What's wrong with that???
I hardly ever iron... last time my X was home, d came down stairs in a t-shirt, and he had a fit because it wasn't ironed (she always wears hoodies over them)... I told him "we don't iron anything in this house"... he used to iron his underwear... probably still does, I wouldn't know!!!
Man I don't miss that anal retentive attitude!!!
My house is not dirty, but it not tidy. My son loves to build things out of funiture, etc..sometime it stay for a couple of days. Oh well...at least he is having fun.
I really should teach my son to cook, every woman loves a man who can cook. :-)
Ok, I'm with whoever said I'll cook and you can clean. I miss having someone to cook for. I'm not filthy either, but I just really hate the dusting and mopping. I don't like clutter and dirt. But you know, if it's a nice even layer of dust, you almost can't tell. Okay, well, perhaps that's something I need to work on.
What shall I make for dinner? I'll cook while you clean.