Hi everyone. This is my first post. I've been separated from my second husband for a couple of months now. I've just talked to a lawyer to begin divorce proceedings. I've wanted this divorce for years. I met my husband at a very venerable time and he bulldozed his way into my life like a steamroller. He's very pushy and very emotionally endulgent. What I mean by that is that whatever emotion he feels, he will make the world come to a grinding halt in order to address his particular emotion. Whether it be frustration, anger, or even a self-esteem issue. Everything had to be done his way and on his timetable. If the children or I had a concern, worry or issue with something that he didn't understand, then it was dissmissed or invalidated. We all felt very abused. Now that we're separated, I've discovered that all our friends are really his friends. They have all taken his side. Even our church has embraced him and ignored me. I have no family to lean on. I'm completely alone. That's why I'm here. I need some friends. Is there anyone out there that could use a friend as well?
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