My husband filed for divorce back in February. I just found out a little over a month ago. We have been trying to work on things since then, but I don't trust him. He hid the divorce from me for 5 months. During the time he knew he filed for divorce, I thought everything was fine, we ended up getting pregnant. still unknown to me he had filed for divorce. He came home every night, slept next to me, kissed, our relationship was better than ever. Then I find this out. My heart broke. For one week he tryed to convince me that he wanted this, and then it ended, because I was still upset he had been hiding and living a lie for months. Anyway, I talked about leaving cause I can't continue to sleep next to him when we don't talk, or touch. We are acting in front of the kids, but I can no longer be ignore unless in front of the kids. he said if I left he would fight for custody and win, cause he can financially support them. I know that is crap, but how do I find out. His attorney obviously told him, he would get custody. He tells me over and over that he would get them. I am upset and unsure if that is true. Sure he makes a little more than me, he pays all bills but daycare and my car payment, but that doesn't mean that I am a bad mother that he deserves the kids because he makes more, right? I need to hear from women who have been down this road, who were also threaten if they left with the kids, he would get custody. Help!
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