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I'm sure I will get scorned by some people but..here it goes. Okay so, just to backtrack, I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7 mos and we live together. After I moved in with him, I saw that he had major insecurity issues. He pretty much was always thinking I had bad intentions or was seeing somebody else. And of course I have never even thought of that because I love him very much. So, I finally got him to let go of that recently.
I'm not sure if it was b/c of his insecurity or my own but I've never distrusted him. NEVER. I've always felt like he was a genuine guy. Up until recently....I've just had a funny feeling about him for the past couple of weeks. Everything has been great between us but I couldn't help but think about this feeling that I have that I had started to not trust him. So, yes..sad to say..I went and made a fake myspace profile (we both have profiles of our own.) and just put some girls picture on there and was going to send him a friend request just to see if he would respond...yes I know. I should have NEVER done that. I regret it very much now. I've never stooped to that level before and i feel dirty for doing it. BUT I did it nonetheless...well, he denyed the request so I felt good about it. and just never really thought about it anymore. Well, last week sometime, I checked that profile and he had sent a message just asking do I know you. That's it. It pissed me off that he would even ask it..but like I said I was the one in the wrong for even making the stupid thing. It was dumb.. I shouldn't have done it. So I asked him about sending her the message and he pretty much just said that he thought she looked familiar and that he was kind of being a smartass by asking do I know you because as he says "she can clearly see I have a g/f". SOooo once again, I was going to just leave it alone b/c it made me feel like such an idiot for even thinking anything. Yesterday, I went on the profile to delete it and low and behold I had a new message..but this time, HE made a fake profile just to talk to this "girl" and this is what he wrote:
"whats up? Take a guess at who the mister E man is.
HINT: we have already talked a little but in a not so safe environment.
I don't know why but I feel like I need to know more about you."
I'm completely heartbroken by it and I don't know what to do. I've thought about it all night and all morning. Of course I don't want to tell him that it was me but then again I want to confront him about it. I just feel like an idiot for even doing this...but I did it and now this has happened and I don't know what to do. Please tell me what you would do...should I just delete the profile and pretend this never happened? Should I respond to his message? Should I confront him about it and end up looking like an idiot???? Should I just leave him? What should I do???
I'm not sure if it was b/c of his insecurity or my own but I've never distrusted him. NEVER. I've always felt like he was a genuine guy. Up until recently....I've just had a funny feeling about him for the past couple of weeks. Everything has been great between us but I couldn't help but think about this feeling that I have that I had started to not trust him. So, yes..sad to say..I went and made a fake myspace profile (we both have profiles of our own.) and just put some girls picture on there and was going to send him a friend request just to see if he would respond...yes I know. I should have NEVER done that. I regret it very much now. I've never stooped to that level before and i feel dirty for doing it. BUT I did it nonetheless...well, he denyed the request so I felt good about it. and just never really thought about it anymore. Well, last week sometime, I checked that profile and he had sent a message just asking do I know you. That's it. It pissed me off that he would even ask it..but like I said I was the one in the wrong for even making the stupid thing. It was dumb.. I shouldn't have done it. So I asked him about sending her the message and he pretty much just said that he thought she looked familiar and that he was kind of being a smartass by asking do I know you because as he says "she can clearly see I have a g/f". SOooo once again, I was going to just leave it alone b/c it made me feel like such an idiot for even thinking anything. Yesterday, I went on the profile to delete it and low and behold I had a new message..but this time, HE made a fake profile just to talk to this "girl" and this is what he wrote:
"whats up? Take a guess at who the mister E man is.
HINT: we have already talked a little but in a not so safe environment.
I don't know why but I feel like I need to know more about you."
I'm completely heartbroken by it and I don't know what to do. I've thought about it all night and all morning. Of course I don't want to tell him that it was me but then again I want to confront him about it. I just feel like an idiot for even doing this...but I did it and now this has happened and I don't know what to do. Please tell me what you would do...should I just delete the profile and pretend this never happened? Should I respond to his message? Should I confront him about it and end up looking like an idiot???? Should I just leave him? What should I do???
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He would have met her, and if he knew it was you, he would have asked you wtf, not continue to play the game and make you feel he's cheating.
The only response i can give to you is my own experience of this.
I was the one who left my ex, walked out on him with the kids (story on my profile) just recently i was thinking about possibly getting back with him and decided to see what he had been saying about me on the site he goes on.
REALLY wish i didnt, he was horrible about me, i know i hurt him but he said some really unforgivable stuff on there.
All i can say to you is be careful what you wish for, you may not like what you find out and could you live with it if you did?
Other thing is, he had to create a diff myspace account so obviously you wre the first piece of interest on there. you may be the only one.
seriously if you dont trust him talk to him, you need to be open and honest with each other.
Good luck