My husband used to pay to talk to women online. It was the kind of chat where the women get paid to talk to men or women online. I found out about it and my husband stopped doing it for about 2 years. Today I went on our computer as I have a lot of pictures on there that I was organizing and I was looking in different files as our pictures were scattered all over. As I was doing this I found a file that had cookies from my husband's web browsing. This was odd considering we both clear those almost daily to keep our comp working properly. Anyway, I didn't think anything of it, until one caught my eye that was related to sex dating. I went to the website to see what it was and sure enough, he has a profile on there. Curious how far this was going, I managed to log in as him (his password and usernames never change) and he has a profile indicating he's single, and looking for sexy women to have "a wild time" with. Well, his account also had kept copies of messages he sent to women. I read them and basically he was telling these women that he wished they lived closer so they could have sex. My heart broke. I know that given our schedules he has not met with any of these women (i don't think they were from our area) but it's still the fact that his words indicate he would consider it. I don't know what to do. I sent him a text message as he was on his way to work letting him know i found this and he of course denied it. I printed all the messages and his profile so I can show them to him and make him tell me the truth. I don't know if this means that it may be best to divorce or if we need to talk it out or what. I don't want to have to worry about what he's going to do or what he's doing online. I don't want to live my life having to monitor his activities. Do you know what I mean?
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