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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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deleted_user 10/29/2007

I am at the end of my rope here!~! These last 4 months has been pure HELL on me, especially the last 3 weeks. Well, tonight the H(or should I say the STBX, said something to me tonight that crushed my heart. We are now going to be getting a divorce. He told me tonight, after ALL these months of trying, that marriage to him is nothing but co-habitation with BENEFITS!~! UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Makes me sick. I have NO money... He drained my life insurance benefit savings account, then after my money was gone, he started treating me like crap & he's sitting on a pretty nice nest egg. I have NO job, NO money, NO where to go... I don't know what I am going to do. THIS SUCKS!~!

deleted_user 10/30/2007

Can you say lawyer. I know that won't take away the pain of what he said, but self preservation is important as well

deleted_user 10/30/2007

I have NO money for an attorney... He sucked me dry.... I don't know what I am going to do, but I can't live like this anymore... I told him that tonight.. I will NOT let him control my life any longer. I will not stay here & let him beat me down with his emotional & mental abuse. I NEED TO GET OUT OF HERE & HAVE NO MEANS TO DO IT!~!~!

deleted_user 10/30/2007

Oh gosh, I am so sorry. This happened to me about a week or so ago, but I am still not giving up.

Do you any family to stay with? If not, kick him out of the home you are living in. He wanted the divorce, he can leave. Do what I didn't so...Stay and stand up for yourself. You have rights.

deleted_user 10/30/2007

Oh I am so sorry. I can't even imagine how hard this would be. Do you have any family that could help you??

deleted_user 10/30/2007

I'm sorry that the reconciliation did not work out catfisher. Well, you know he is a bolter. Do you have Legal Aid in your county? There is always some organization to help.

How is it that he got his hands on your money and you cannot get yours on his? Whatever, the judge will make him fork over.

CanadianRose 10/30/2007

Sweetheart.. we will find a way.

You can contact a lawyer who will accept payment based on a settlement after.

You need to take care of you right now.. try and be strong. Know that we are here for you darling.

deleted_user 10/30/2007

I'm so sorry, things seemed to be looking up. What happened? I have been deling with my own stuff, so have not been paying as close attention as I should have been. Please accept my apology. What happened to your schooling? We are here for you if you need us.

deleted_user 10/30/2007

everything is on a stand still now as far as the schooling..

When I wasn't able to find a job, I had to use it to help pay bills. I also had to use it to buy the washer/dryer, fridge & kitchen island that I wanted. PLUS I paid for ALL of our wedding, other than $1,000.00 of it... Nice of him, eh?

deleted_user 10/30/2007

If you look at the domestic relations section of your county court's website, it may have links to help getting a divorce(in your case, money.) If you became disabled during the marriage, he may have to pay support. He will have to make good on what he sucked out but did not put in.

While he is still there, get the maximum amount of money back you can squeeze out of him.

deleted_user 10/30/2007

we have one joint account & that is the bill account... He's sitting on his savings account & I can NOT get into it.

deleted_user 10/30/2007

btw, my family is in Northwest Ohio, I'm here in TX.... They have it hard enough on themselves right now.. They can't afford to help me out & I wouldn't ask them..

deleted_user 10/30/2007

catfisher, look for free legal aide online. There is some in your area I am sure. My ex went and got it because she WOULDN'T work. They helped her to screw me. I am sure someone as deserving as you they would certainly help if they helped my bitch! Look into it. Call an attny and they can even point you in the right direction. There are alternatives out there!

deleted_user 10/30/2007

Gee, maybe we should set the bitch & dick up LMAO maybe they would make a good pair lol

deleted_user 10/30/2007

you think? look into it though, there are a lot of resources out there for someone in your position

LisaACOA 10/30/2007

Call your local Y.W.C.A. They have alot of resouces for abused women and children. They can help you find housing, legal stuff, support groups, counseling, shelters, help you with schooling, and alot more. It really is a great organization. Good luck to you. If you need to talk I am here for you.

Your friend,

Lisa
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