We have been married 5 months and I asked for a divorce.We had been fighting for while because my husband did not want to create boundaries with his parents financially and socially. They had alot of control over him and he still does not realise this. I had tried many polite and kind ways of creating boundaries and we even talked about it but he said that I was creating issues where everything was just perfect. I was even accused of taking him away from his family. My husband readily said yes to a divorce. I just moved out last nite and filed the paperwork today. I am so baffled that he found me all the boxes, helped me pack, packed the pick-up truck and helped me move. When I came back for the final items within 45 minutes he had re-arranged all the furniture, removed all our pics from the walls and put up all the pics of him and his family. I am so hurt...why did he even marry me?
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