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ok heres the thing!
i go on realty websites everyday for sh'ts and giggles cause id like to have an idea where i might be and whats to come in several months. so i was on a connecticut realty site and i found a house listed only its 2 apartments listed under condominium. so i told stbx and he says to call to get info on it. i'm not sure what he has in mind and im not sure what i have in mind either. meaning if we'd buy it or just find out if we could rent one. but i emailed raveis and they'll be getting back to me soon i hope. wouldnt it be cool to have a 2 apartment place , one for each of us and we'd share the children then, cause we'd be both there. am i dreaming , please , wake me up. have i completely lost it. this place is in our price range too. its only 219,000 and it so it said it would be about a 1,025 dollar mortgage. OMG! Or weould this all be too confusing for the children cause he'd be there and they may not know where to live at any give n time, with me or him
input please.
any ideas. how could we possibly do this so that we are NOT both there instead and just rent one.
i go on realty websites everyday for sh'ts and giggles cause id like to have an idea where i might be and whats to come in several months. so i was on a connecticut realty site and i found a house listed only its 2 apartments listed under condominium. so i told stbx and he says to call to get info on it. i'm not sure what he has in mind and im not sure what i have in mind either. meaning if we'd buy it or just find out if we could rent one. but i emailed raveis and they'll be getting back to me soon i hope. wouldnt it be cool to have a 2 apartment place , one for each of us and we'd share the children then, cause we'd be both there. am i dreaming , please , wake me up. have i completely lost it. this place is in our price range too. its only 219,000 and it so it said it would be about a 1,025 dollar mortgage. OMG! Or weould this all be too confusing for the children cause he'd be there and they may not know where to live at any give n time, with me or him
input please.
any ideas. how could we possibly do this so that we are NOT both there instead and just rent one.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Will your next man be fine with you living so close to ex?
Yes it is convenient, but will the advantages outweigh the disadvantages?
Why would it confuse the kids to have both parents living in the same building? Kids are pretty smart they roll with that kind of think. I would think it would be harder for the two of you to try living separate lives when you are on top of one another.
i need more input on this
my therapist actually thinks i should go look at it. she says i can get whats called a bridge loan which means they will let me get the loan with having the present. or something like that anyone know details of this loan? so actually we (stbx and i ) would nt be living together in same bldg.