Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I'm becoming manipulative and playing mind games with the ex.... I know a big part of this is my hormones but I keep doing horrible things in the heat of the moment, making threats that I have no intention of going through with (like saying I'll tell his mum how much money he owes me), but I know they'll get to him. I can't stop myself it's like I need a reaction. This really isn't 'me' I feel so bad but can't stop myself, I'm a stranger to myself... What's happening to me?!
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You should tell his Mother if you want my opinion. He's such a jerk...........
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Part of the grief process. Unfortunately, you have him to direct this to. Ever hear of DivorceCare? Perhaps you can Goggle that and your city and find one close to you that meets. People there know and understand exactly what you are going through. It would help to talk with someone... to vent this out with someone else that understands. Or find a friend and really vent it out in words as well. Talk it over a few times. You will find that you can get through this stage.
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wow. i think that you are so strong and great to recognize this. at the same time, perhaps, you are doing this because you are upset and not sure of better ways to express it. it is ok to be upset at people who deserve it. take care.
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