Ok, so she's back basiclly just living with me and sharing space. She did declare before she needs space. I hate that, why do chicks do that? I never heard a guy say that. Anyways... she could be very loving and close to me a couple of times during this past week, but for the most she claims thats she is unhappy (not directlly to me) and that this doesn't feel right. Right now we are waiting for some CD's to arrive, marriage counsling (should be the best out there). We are going to give them a shot and I believe that they are our last chance. The thing is, there is no hugging, toumcing, kissing, or real communication going on. I feel I'm putting in 150% and she not even trying and I know that she is enetering this with a negative attitide and not believing this would work out. She still is hanging around whitch gives me hope. I'm starting to think now that how long am I going to put up with this crap, I deserve some rewards for my hard work I put into this. I get nothing back, it's frustrating. After all I do for her, I maybe get a lousy hud back and a very rarly a kiss on the cheek. I think if this was another woman she would have been head over heels in love with me by now. My wife just puts this barrier up between us and is very unhappy I can tell. What is she doing? Does anyone know what the hell is going on in her mind, because I don't? Whats happening, I dont know. Should I give her the boot if she continues with this attitude?
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