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Okay a brief history in case someone who reads this doesn't know my story.
11/22/2006 My fiancee went missing about a week and a half before we were to get married.I filed a missing persons report and worried obsesively all while worrying about my mom who was having emergency brain surgery for a blood clot on her brain.No one knew until she was found comatose in bed the day after he went missing.
He stayed missing with no word from him or police for 6 monthes.He just showed up WITH his new wife and his best friend.He just walked in the front door wanting to get his sh@@.Someone else left the front door unlocked.I had changed the locks.
Okay now,he left his van saying he would come back to get it.A mutual friend gave him contact info so he could deal with them rather than me.I wanted nothing to do with him anymore.I know I could have gotten rid of that damn eyesore in those first 6 monthes but I was afraid he was dead and didn't want to part with it.I know I could have gotten rid of it in the last 5 out of 6 monthes.When I asked,the police said give him 30 days then you can have it removed).
I don't know why but I just couldn't/wouldn't have it removed.I knew he'd never take it but I didn't have it removed.
Today I am selling it to a junk yard.The guy is coming to haul it away this morning.
I am seriously itching like a kid on Christmas Eve waiting for Santa to fly in with his reindeer and soar away with that very last piece of the ex I have left and leave me with some spending money.Wow I'm definately using it for something frivilous.No bills being paid with that money.
I thought I'd be sad but I'm not.I'm excited.I can't wait.Somebody talk me down from the anxiety of excitement and joy.I could burst.If Santa doesn't get here soon,I don't know what I'll do.
11/22/2006 My fiancee went missing about a week and a half before we were to get married.I filed a missing persons report and worried obsesively all while worrying about my mom who was having emergency brain surgery for a blood clot on her brain.No one knew until she was found comatose in bed the day after he went missing.
He stayed missing with no word from him or police for 6 monthes.He just showed up WITH his new wife and his best friend.He just walked in the front door wanting to get his sh@@.Someone else left the front door unlocked.I had changed the locks.
Okay now,he left his van saying he would come back to get it.A mutual friend gave him contact info so he could deal with them rather than me.I wanted nothing to do with him anymore.I know I could have gotten rid of that damn eyesore in those first 6 monthes but I was afraid he was dead and didn't want to part with it.I know I could have gotten rid of it in the last 5 out of 6 monthes.When I asked,the police said give him 30 days then you can have it removed).
I don't know why but I just couldn't/wouldn't have it removed.I knew he'd never take it but I didn't have it removed.
Today I am selling it to a junk yard.The guy is coming to haul it away this morning.
I am seriously itching like a kid on Christmas Eve waiting for Santa to fly in with his reindeer and soar away with that very last piece of the ex I have left and leave me with some spending money.Wow I'm definately using it for something frivilous.No bills being paid with that money.
I thought I'd be sad but I'm not.I'm excited.I can't wait.Somebody talk me down from the anxiety of excitement and joy.I could burst.If Santa doesn't get here soon,I don't know what I'll do.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I'm excited for ya!
Who could put someone through that kind of pain with a wedding planned in less than 2 weeks. Well, who could do that to another person under ANY circumstances.
You are awesome to come through this so sane! You mus be one Hell of a strong woman!
I agree take that money and have a BLAST!
Santa showed up in his red dodge 250 truck with a trailer and 3 elves.The van is gone.
My mom and I waved goodbye and she said and I quote
"Byebye asshole.Hope to never see you again."
Realize what a great thrill it is for me to have her finally be able to speak so well considering her 2 brain surgeries that were expected by her surgeon to leave her vegetative.YEAH WIPPEE WAHOO!
HE"S GONE,OUTTA HERE,SO LONG,GOODBYE,AUF WIEDERSEHEN ADIEU TO YOU AND YOUR POO AND YOUR NEW MOOMOO TOO!!!!!!
Good Freakin Riddance of the Leech.. the freakin blood sucker putting you through all that...ta ta Arsehole!..
good.. so what's next?...we got to celebrate!!!!!!! give mom a big hug for me! (((HUGS)))
Thank you Rose I would have sent you a personal hug but I want everbody who takes the time to read all the posts to see you've touched both of us today.I love ya Rose.
The stress on you and your love ones.
This is just a fraction of what he owes you.. so you go out and enjoy it and do not look back.
He has taken enough from you in the past... don't give him any more of your time, energy, emotion.
Damn I am so proud of you.
Ask mom if she knows the song from the movie South Pacific .."going to wash that man right out of my hair"..
now go...scoot..breathe slowly...and enjoy your life.. your freedom.
Be well..(((HUGS)))