Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Back to the beggining for me. I'm so numb. I can't believe I got duped! That's how I feel at least. He used me, he lied, he manipulated to get what he wanted. Is that what happend? I'm so confused, lost.
I want to call him and tell him not to contact me in any way shape or form. That'd be counterproductive though right?
I want to call him and tell him not to contact me in any way shape or form. That'd be counterproductive though right?
deleted_user
Don't call him. Ignore him. If you call him, you are opening yourself up to letting him hurt you het again. Hang in there. We are here!
deleted_user
I'm so sorry Shock. I have to say I have mine blocked from my phone and email. That way he cannot just burst through my boundaries and ruin my day. Or I don't have to know that he didn't even try, which on some days would be even worse!
deleted_user
Dont call him. You will only get hurt. Believe me i know
patti22
Don't call. Start counting every time he calls you and you don't respond...when you get to 10 get yourself something...a flower, a cookie, a beer whatever. Repeat.
deleted_user
Thanks Patti! I never thought of a rewards system. I'm like a dog, that'll work for me!!
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
