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I'm lonely

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Don't know why I feel this way but I am lonely. I have kids at home who love me but don't do anything for me. I have a man in my life that I'm seeing but I don't know where that is going. I just feel plain lonely right now. Is this the way it is supposed to be when getting divorced? I have tons of stuff to do around the house and many projects that need my attention but I don't feel like doing them. I need to get my information ready for mediation and have not focused on it. What is going on with me? Anybody else have this problem?
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I do sometimes. There are alot of things I can and should do but I feel drained sometimes.

It's normal. I think one thing that may help is to at least start some of the projcts instead of ignoring them completley. You may be able to finish it once you start or you can revisit it a little at a time each day.

Thats how I got through my divorce paperwork
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I share the same feelings, its like a big empty hole. I think it's normal, we have had such a shock and so many emotions to deal with... normal just not fun to live with. (( Hugs ))
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Yep - I'm lonely too - ADN alone. I had 2 cats but was forced to give them away :0(
I'll get another next month or in January to keep me company and make me laugh (that claw up your leg while you're cooking dinner is a good trick for kittens LOL)
I have a good woman in my life now but hardly see her since she has 2 kids and works.
I hope you feel beter soon and get all your stuff done :0)

HUGSSSSSSSSS
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Just about every day.
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TOTALLY NORMAL! I'm going through the exact same thing! I feel you with the lack of motivation. I feel drained whether I do a little or work hard all day long.
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I feel the same. I should be getting ready for my divorce but, just don't feel like it. I don't have a women in my life but, work all the time. Maybe this is why I feel lonely.
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