...and I realize that this post is not going to make me a lot of friends. However, I have read some of the posts about people talking about their exes. I don\'t think that it is constructive to your healing or your health for that matter to come here and bash your ex. Yes, we know that they did things wrong. We all did. Divorce is a two way street. Although one person may have had more influence in the divorce needing to take place, a support group should be a place where we come to build one another up. Not bash the past. I know that we are all in a rough and vulnerable state right now. I have been the victim of lies and bashing by my ex and quite honestly it does nothing to help healing and especially if there are children involved, we need to get ourselves better so they can get better through this mess. I\'m sorry if this offends anyone, maybe this is where you come to vent, and if that\'s the case, well, I hope that it helps you I guess. But to really move on and get past all the crap, the bashing and ill-will needs to cease. It\'s done. It\'s over. It\'s time to move on, learn from our and our exes mistakes, and build a happy life again. I\'ve found that not bashing him as he\'s done to me has helped me get through this for my kids quite quickly. Again, forgive me for stepping on toes. I just think it needed to be brought to attention. It takes two to tango and the only thing you are responsible for now is your own actions and healing. God Bless,
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