My divorce occurred this summer and was my decision. After 9 years of his emotional and physical abuse I finally ended my marriage. It was very hard and because I am very private I never shared what I went through so noone really knows why I divorced- I live in a very small town so of course my divorce made front page news. As soon as we separated my ex aired all of our dirty laundry and of course made me sound terrible telling lots of lies. I absolutely refuse to tell people what I lived with because it is none of their business but now I am subject to all sorts of bad judgement. I see it everywhere and the price I have paid is my reputation and people think I am a bad mom. Help!!! Has anyone else been through anything like this???
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