He was here tonight to go over financial stuff. He is giving me & kids support. Can't fault him for that. He said there is hope of us getting back together, but then said nobody can make him stop drinking. So, no, I can't have him back here. And, of course, there's the pig whore he is still probably seeing. So, anyway, I'm not really asking advice because I know what I have to do. I guess I'm going to go to AL-Anon meetings for additional support in this mess. I'm new here and I've been reading all the discussions and advice and you all have helped tremendously. He is not going to change unless he chooses to. I can't help him anymore. I'm determined to start healing and get back to my usual happy self. Thank you all for being out there. DS is a lifesaver
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