and really I don't but whenever I hear of my x living the "high life" it makes my blood boil. He complains about paying CS for the kids...he begrudges any amount that they are entitled to...pays only about half of what he should actually be paying anyway because of the self employment issue...the man made $160K on just 2 parts of his 3 businesses...and probably had about $40K in business related expenses. Adding the third business and we're probably talking about another $40K added for a total of $160K. Not only that but he steals from them. And from me. Anyways, he just purchased a huge new brick home. It literally makes me sick to my stomach. The entire time we were married, all he did was yell at me over money. And I work. He acted like he did me the biggest favor ever when we purchased the house after we were married for 11 years. Now his gf won't even work and he provides her with a huge new home. (I'm stamping my foot and screaming IT'S NOT FAIR!!!) Why, oh why, does all of this come easy to him??? How is he just able to get all of this financing??? Why is he only getting away with providing half of the support that he should be providing his children? And that wouldn't even bother me if he helped me with extras...like daughter's trip to Washington DC, any kind of gifts (the man didn't even buy his daughter a present for her 15th birthday), take them out to eat, or anything. I KNOW that I'm the one who's got the better end of the deal but why does this hurt my heart so much that no matter how horrible he's been, how he's abandoned his kids and lie to all of us even in court, yet, he still continues to prosper and see success???
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